However, most men don’t know they ought to do some things, since
their lady won’t openly tell them. The truth is, she doesn’t have to
tell you anything, you just have to be sensitive to her plights.
Read on and you would know some of those things your lady wants from
you, and if you haven’t been doing them, it’s never too late.
1. DATES
Every lady wants to be out with her man and if you don’t give her
those dates, the truth is someone else will. Taking her on those dates
just makes her feel special, and it strengthens the bond between you
guys. The more romantic your dates are the more special your
relationship would be; there are no two ways about that. It doesn’t have
to be expensive, it doesn’t have to be five star, if you can’t afford
the luxury she would understand, but she you won’t tell you this; you
ought to know it.
2. I LOVE YOU
I keep wondering why most men are stiff hearted; if you love your
lady don’t be too strong hearted to tell her you do. Most guys just keep
expecting their lady to profess to them how much she loves him without
even saying so too. If you really do care about that special lady, you
don’t need a priest to tell you what you ought to say to her. She
expects you to tell her how much you love her and you really ought to do
that every day; yea, every day.
3. BIRTHDAYS
I’ve never seen a lady who doesn’t value her birthday; every lady is
attached to her birthday, it’s like a special day for her. There is just
one simple thing every lady expects; don’t forget my birthday. No
matter what you do, no matter how full your brain is, don’t forget to
wish her a happy birthday, never forget her birthday; when you don’t do
this, you pass a message that you don’t care even if you do care. ALWAYS
REMEMBER HER BIRTHDAYS.
4. TELL HER EVERYTHING
Whether you like it or not, your lady expects you to tell her
everything, from the normal things to your deepest secrets, she wants to
know them all. She feels special when she feels you don’t hide anything
from her. If you think that’s a lie then try holding some things from
her, it would frustrate her, and she would come up with the normal “I’m
your girlfriend for Christ sake”. Ladies hate when things are kept away
from them, they just want to know everything that’s going on in their
life.
5. LISTEN TO HER
This shouldn’t be said twice, every lady needs a man that would
listen to her when she’s down, when she’s happy; at all times she just
needs that listening ear. If you can be the man that would listen to her
at all times, she would value you the more. She doesn’t have to tell
you that you ought to listen to her always.
6. TOLERANCE
The truth is every lady knows she has issues about certain aspects of
her life, she knows she can be hard to be with at times but she still
expects her man to tolerate her. It’s not just a wish, she expects you
to do so. When she’s in that annoying mode, angry mode and all that, she
expects you to just tolerate her for the time being, and she would love
you for doing so. It may be frustrating but she still expects you to
still be her man even through those rough moments.
7. STAND UP FOR HER
Every lady expects her man to stand up for her. She knows she’s
priceless to you and she expects you to show it by being there for her.
Standing up for her doesn’t necessarily mean fighting with some other
guy, it means being there for her at all times, it means being her man
not just when you’re inside but outside as well, it means showing the
world you care about her without minding who’s watching.
8. VALUE HER
“He doesn’t value me”. If you have heard this statement from a lady
then you would know that every lady expects her man to value and
appreciate her, after all you asked her out for a reason. She doesn’t
need to tell you that you should make her mean the world to you before
you do so; she expects it always from you. She expects her man to value
her, cherish her and make everyone else wonder at how much you love. In
short, this is one thing every lady wants.
So guys, you ought to have this at the back of your head if you’re in
that relationship with a lady you truly care about; she expects this
from you.
